The First Look is one wedding trend that is seemingly here to stay. (This is when two partners see each other for the first time BEFORE the walk down the aisle). At P.S. Eventful, we firmly believe the decision to do a First Look is up to the couple. Here’s some pros and cons of a First Look to help make your decision.

Pros:

  • More time for photos. From a scheduling perspective, if you have a late ceremony, a First Look gives you ample time for formal photos before your wedding. This is especially beneficial if you have a large bridal party.
  • You won’t miss cocktail hour. Couples often spend cocktail hour doing formal photos, but a First Look allows you to enjoy this time with guests since your photos were done earlier in the day.
  • Helps reduce nerves. If you are feeling queasy about walking down the aisle/waiting at the aisle, a First Look can help kill the nerves as you will be able to see your partner ahead of time.
  • You get a moment to yourselves. The First Look is only you and your partner (well, and your photographer). In this time, you get a few minutes to really take in the day and what is about to happen.

Cons

  • Guests won’t see the reaction. It is your decision whether you feel the initial reveal is something you prefer to share only with your partner or your guests.
  • Too staged. If you are the type of person who prefers more candid photography, then the First Look can appear to be more of a staged photo.
  • Not getting the reaction you want. There’s no guarantee to get the reaction you anticipate from your partner. He/she may be nervous with a photographer around or may not be as emotional as you hoped.

Questions to ask yourself when deciding whether to have a First Look:

  • Are you traditional? Have you always envisioned seeing your partner for the first time during the walk down the aisle or while waiting at the aisle?
  • Are you nervous? Will seeing your partner ahead of time reduce nerves?
  • Will you be disappointed if you do not get the reaction you are hoping for from your partner?
  • Do you prefer a lot of photos? If so, photos during cocktail hour only may not be enough for you.

Remember, this is your wedding and the decision to do a First Look is solely up to you and your partner. There is not a right or wrong decision but simply a matter of how you envision your wedding day.

Photo by: Henry Park Photography